Keepsakes from ex
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok me and my man have been together almost 6 months and I keep finding stuff from his ex gf in his room, I'm not snooping we used to live together and she was really bad to him and don't understand why he still has that stuff it's been almost 2 years since they broke up and it causes fights between us and I've even been to her house and met her and her family they are white trash, and she is a female dog.. Should I be upset or should I ask him about it calmly and let him do what he wants with it??
I'd ignore that stuff and concentrate on the present.
If you want to ask him about it, ask in a gentle, non-aggressive manner. He probably keeps the stuff because he is a pack rat or just throw away memories.
This should not threaten you as we all have memories of times past.
-- from George
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