A Kiss After a Month
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
well i am a girl and i am 16....i am having a affair with a guy who is two years older then me...he says he loves me..i love him too...now its his birthday coming...and he want a kiss as a present and i am not ready for that yet...i mean i do love him but as i am a muslim it is not good for me to kiss a guy...although i want to kiss him too...i love him alot...but...tell me should i kiss him or not..and ...is my love at this age is trye or just an attraction?
plz help me coz i really need help...
if i will not kiss him...he will do nothing...but i want to make him feel good and i am want to kiss him too...tell me is this too early to kiss him as we are toghter for nor even a month.. plz help me...
I hope by affair you just mean you two are dating, and not that he is a married man!
It is very normal in most places of the world for teenagers to kiss when they care about each other. Kissing is just the touching of lip to lip, something that brothers and sisters and moms and kids all do in different ways to show their love and affection. This isn't something "sexual" that only lovers do. It's a normal, common, world wide sign of love and affection.
So I would kiss him if you've become very fond of him. If you're shy, give him a gentle kiss, just a soft one. You can always do longer kisses later as you spend more time together.
You can certainly be in love at 16! It wasn't that long ago that 16 was the normal age for women to get married and start raising a family ...
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com