Surfin the net for porn while ignoring his girl

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. Since we started dating he told me he has never had a high sex drive. We don't have a great sex life. However, I find him surfing porn on the net. He says he doesn't have a sex drive yet he can get off to porn. I don't understand why he looks at it when he has someone who loves him at home. It would be different if he was satisfying my sex drive but that is not the case. Advice
There is no explaining why people have different sexual feelings.

My advice is to join him in his surfing and/or rent XXX movies. Get involved in talking about what you are seeing with him.

My guess is that your love life will perk up after doing this for a while.

Good luck!

-- from George
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