I like/love this kid and he has a girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi, im goin through a tuff situation here...i like/love this kid and hes one of my best friends..and the thing is he has a girlfriend..and i think he knows i like him.one day me and him got together and i dont know what happened but we started to make out and kiss a lot..but then when i tried to find out what he was feeling he said that he regrets it and that he doesnt want me to tell no one and to forget about the whole thing..And its hard because i like him a lot..and i dont know what to do..i dont know if he has any type of feelings for me or not..and i dont want him to break up with his girlfriend either..but i dont know what to do.....the thing is i want to know if he has any type of feelings for me...i know he loves his girlfriend a lot and i know it was bad what we did but..do you think he felt something while we were kissing because if he didnt want to so bad he would've stopped you know..so what do i do..do i just go back to being friends like it use to be ..or do i stick with my feelings and wait? how do i deal with this situation?
Based on what you said and what he said to you, my advice is to just forget what happened.
If you want to continue to be his friend and have feelings for him, there is nothing wrong with that.
However, I think he just got caught up in the moment but doesn't have real feelings for you.
Hope this helps!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com