she is mad at her friends who i am hanging out with
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I went out with this girl for about a week at school, and obviously we didnt have much time to get involved. Finally after about a week, she broke up with me, and at first I was upset, now I'm deffently over it. Now, I hanging out with some of her friends,(just as friends) and we (like me and 4 other of her freinds) do alot of stuff together, and she thinks that we are trying to make a "club". I think she asked her friends a little bit what was going on, and they said its fun haning out with him, and that she should come too, but my ex said that she did not want to becuase she didnt want to be near me, and now it seems like she is mad at her friends who i am haning out with. Finally, when I was on-line talking to my friends, I saw my ex's screen name, and so i just checked her profile, and she had like a journal of what she was thinking, and told this long story about me, the friends I hang out with, and this "club" which she thinks were starting. What should I do about all of this with out getting my friends more involved then my ex is making them?
P.S. She doesnt really talk to me, maybe "hi" a couple times
Just keep doing what you are doing.
Pretty soon she will get over it and won't mind your being with her friends. Be friendly to her and she will be friendly back. Try to see it from her position too. Make her feel comfortable and everything will be ok.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com