Mother causes trouble for couple
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
PLEASE HELP ME ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 9 MONTHS NOW AND I LOVE HER SO MUCH AND WE JUST SOLVED OUR FIGHTING PROBLEM(THANK GOD FOR YOU GUYS) BUT HER MOM THINKS WE HAD SEX WHICH WE WERE VERY CLOSE TO BUT TALKED ABOUT IT AND DIDNT AND HER MOM FOUND OUT BOUT IT AND WAS PISSED AND THINKS WE DID AND SOME DAYS HER MOM IS COOL AND ME AND MY GURL DO THINGS BUT FOR 2 MONTHS NOW ITS BEEN REAL BAD OR A LITTLE GOOD WHAT SHOULD I DO SO WE DONT HAVE TO BREAK UP PLEASE HELP THANX
If I understand correctly, her mother is causing you trouble because she thinks you had sex.
The two of you should approach her and tell her emphatically that you did NOT have sex and have no plans to do so. This should cause her to let up on her trouble making.
Be prepared that she might just blow up because she is so upset about the thought. Just keep reassuring her that what you said is true. If she tries to break you up, be firm that you are going to continue to see each other.
It's a tricky situation, but you have to try something.
Hope this helps,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com