Realize it is over
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I was with this guy for about 8 months but we had already broken up once because of some issues i didnt quite understand he told me it was because he couldnt handle school and a girlfriend at the same time. We werent together for about a month but we saw each other one night n ended up having sex but the next day he was like it was a mistake it shouldnt have happened n i was really hurt because i love him. After about a week he came and asked me back out n we got back together n i was soooooo happy but i felt that eveything wasnt the same because i knew his feelings for me had changed. After a month and a half i told him i didnt love him anymore and 3 days later her broke up with me n i was heartbroken. Now he is contacting me and saying that he wants to have sex with me n im telling him its not going to happen so he's trying to make me feel guilty by saying o you dont want me anymore and stuff like that and telling me to remember all the time me n him had together so im confused i know he just wants me for sex but i still have feeling for him and i dont kow if there can be any other feelings behind it but i want him back what can i do?
Realize that it is over.
It is obvious to you that he doesn't care for you except to use you.
There are many ways to get over a break-up and we have a special webpage on that topic. You may find it at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54875
I am sorry you are in this fix and hope you get out of it soon!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com