My wife's exhusband will not let go
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My wife's exhusband will not let go. He keeps telling her he loves her and wishes they were still together. I've tried to get along with him because they have kids but he's taken it too far and i cant stand it anylonger. I let him stay at our house he would go to our bedroom when i was gone and my wife would wake up with him staring. When my wife went to visit her mother he would show up at the movies uninvited. He even bought her a car to try to win her over. My wife doesnt want me to say anything to him because he has custody of their kids, but its getting to a point where something has to be done, but what?
Seems like you have put up with a lot!
Many men would not have gone half as far as you have to keep the peace. The problem, as you said, is that he has custody of the kids.
The best you can do is to let him know when he has stepped over the line. For example, him going into your bedroom is way over the line. You don't have to be mean about all this, just take him aside and tell him one man to another that there has to be some lines he can't go beyond. You know the situation, so you will have to figure out those lines.
Wishing you the best!
-- from George
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