Try a little tenderness
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my boyfriend and i just broke up and have agreed that we should be friends. do you think that it will work out ok? and i want nothing more than to be with him again and he knows that but he told me that he doesnt want anything to happen again because he is afraid i will yell at him like i did before and he doesnt want to hurt me when we have to break up cuz hes going to college. how do i read what he said? does he really not like me or does he and wont tell me? i love him and would do anything to get him back so if you know of anything i could do then please let me know. thanks so much
Since he has left the door open for you to be friends, take advantage of it and be as sweet and tender to him as you can without overdoing it.
If you are behaving right... not yelling at him is his biggest pet peeve... then it is likely that physical attraction will pull you together again.
Don't worry about him going off to college, you can still have a relationship long distance and when he comes home to visit. This isn't the easiest thing to do, but it's better than nothing.
Hope things work out for you!
-- from George
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