Saturday night at the movies
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey there is this guy i like and he asked me out and we went to the moives and when we were there it seemed like he liked me but i wanted to make sure so i asked him if he did or didnt and i told him how i feel...the thing is hes freinds with my brother and hes like he does not want make things werid with my brother and me and everyone else and hes like the reason i asked u out was so we can get to know each other more...he also said hes not the type of guys just to fool around so he doesnt wanan jump into anything and that for now we should be freinds... iam just wondering if u think he does like me or if i should just leave it all and move on....?
Well, he likes you enough to ask you out to a movie. That's a fairly strong signal.
When you asked him if he liked you it put him on the spot and he wasn't ready to say anything that might sound like a permanent relationship. That's why he was so disjointed in his reply.
My advice is to let things lie and see if he asks you out again. That will send a strong message.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com