Why didn't he freak out?
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I recently got caught talking to an ex through instant messaging by posing as someone else. He thought I was someone else. He figured it out and made me admit it. I am really confused though by his reaction. He wasn't mad!!! He didn't block me but put my address back on his contact list. He did tell me he wasn't going to have any more conversations with me there because he is seeing someone and happy with his life. Why didn't he freak out. I am so confused. Is there hope for us in the future.
I wouldn't freak out under similar circumstances... I'd be flattered.
However, he has made it clear that he doesn't want to talk to you as he is seeing someone else so my advice is to leave it alone.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com