Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have a crush on this guy. And my friend knows that I like him, but she always tells me this:" I think your crush thinks I like him...because he's always looking at me...I think he likes me." Plus, one time behind my back, she told one of my best friends that she thought he was looking hot lately. Though...at the same time...my friends tell me that he likes me not her because he's always looking at me. Of course...all that hurt my feelings...and it made me so jealous. I don't know why she says these things to me...I know I'm a good friend.Plus I never really hang out with her, so she's not really one of my close friends. And I can't just go up to my crush and ask him if he likes her, cause he doesn't know me too well...and I don't want to turn out as a stalker or a total dork. So please help me... what should I do?
You have two problems: one with your friend and one with your crush.
Your friend is no friend or she is totally insensitive. Does she actually like him? Next time she says something about him tell her that you are very interested in hearing whatever she has to say because you have a big crush on him. She will get the message.
As far as your crush goes... do the traditional thing. Say hi "name" and give him a big smile whenever you see him. Once you have done this for a while, just ask him what's happening to get a few more words out of him. Then build up to the point where you have conversations.
Or, you could give him a note (or put it in his locker) saying that you are interested in him and if he has any interest for him to give you some sign... a wink or something.
Hope some of this helps!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com