Another woman's number on his cell phone
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend and i broke up about two months ago. Two weeks ago spoke about getting back together and working things out. We both agreed to do that. However, he has been acting really cold and uncaring towards me. The other day i was using his cell phone and saw the name of a girl i didn't know. I asked him and he said that she is married and they are just friends. Now he tells me that she is not married. I told him i wanted to meet her and he refuses to let that happen. I know where she works and i feel that i would have to call her to find out the truth. Should i? Should i even continue with the relationship? I really love him, but i feel hurt.
It's too bad that he is unwilling to tell you the whole truth at one sitting. That just makes you suspicious and hurt. Plus, he is acting cold to you.
Talk to him and get to the bottom of what's going on. If he refuses to talk about it seriously and in depth then I would recommend dumping him as no good relationship can exist where the couple cannot communicate about important issues.
If you do have a good talk then there is no reason for you to call her. If the conversation doesn't go well then he'll be gone and you won't care.
If you love him so much that you are willing to skip communications, then feel free to call the woman and find out what is going on.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com