Husband left her and now wants to come back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My husband left me and our two children and moved in with a woman 3 hours away that he met over the internet. Over a month later he is back and realizes he made a mistake and wants me back and won't take no for an answer. I don't want him back but for some reason I am the one that feels bad because I won't let him come back. What should I do?
Before cutting him loose, ask yourself whether you will be better off with him or without him. If you choose without him. See a lawyer and get a divorce. If you want to give it a try, see a marriage counselor.
You don't want to find yourself in his position where he changes his mind but it is too late. Be sure of what you really want.
Don't accept the guilt-trip he is laying on you. You are the "good" person in this situation and don't forget it!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com