I broke up with my girl and now want her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I just broke up with my girl 3 weeks ago... That time i got a headache and i felt very dizzy.. And at the same time she`s so busy over the week that we don`t have a date that week... I`m a little angry so i said the words.... She cried immediately and she said that she`s sorry for dissapointing me that she`s so busy... I regret what i said, and i said to her that we should try again... But she said that she can`t dissapoint me again... Over the 3 weeks, we still keep close to each others, we talked on the phone every night, sometimes i came to her house to give her surprise gift... And actually, there`s some improvement after our breakup, she tried her best to give her time for me even though she`s so busy, while on the contrary, i managed to accept her busyness and give her time... So ithink the problem is solved, and i asked her back.. But she said that she`s not ready for another relationship and said that we should be close friends.. She`s very jealous when i`m going out with other girl, even though it`s not a date, just a walk with old friends. But she still insisted that we should be just friend... I wonder if her love is fading away because i hurt her.. I already explained that i`m sick in that breakup talk and i regret it.... What shoul i do??
Keep doing what you are doing. It seems to be working in the right direction so far. She sounds very stressed by her life right now and probably wants to simplify things by not having a boyfriend.
Try to show her that you are there for her as a support system. Someone she can turn to when she needs to talk but without the pressure of dating. Someday, she might feel ready to start up dating again.
For your sake, I hope so!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com