I cheated and now she won't talk to me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hey i dont know hwo to get my x girlfriend back.. we are went out for two years, everythign ws perfect, we are best friends and very attracted to eachother.. i cheated on her and she found out before i told her, i then admittd everything..sicne then we have been talkin but it came short when she heard a rummor i hookd up w another girl while i was going out with her. sicne i cheated on her once she doesnt beleave me i didnt hook up with this girl also. I SWEAR I DONT even know who the girl is and she wont talk to me now because of rummors and her friends are making me out to be the worst guy ever when im not and she knows it deep down but is letting her friends influence her, how do i get her to beleave me or start talkin to her again?
The first problem is to be able to talk with her. My suggestion is that you keep trying until she finally gives in and is willing to talk. If that approach is going nowhere then write her letters or emails and explain yourself that way.
Explaining yourself should be consistent and strong: you admitted cheating once but never again. Tell her as often as you can until she believes you. She may still not want to see you anymore, but at least you gave it your best shot.
Best of luck!
p.s. you could also try to track back the rumor to its source and dispell it that way.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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