He dated her on a bet

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well as you can see i'm the girl who sents you a lot of emails to you. Well i have this problem with my boyfriend. I don't know whats up with him. Ok. The first day he asked me out i was really happy cause i really wanted to go out with him, anyways, His friend told me that(a few months we have already gone out)i was just a bet. that i was just a bet. And that really hurt me. That at first he didn't like me. but then he started liking me i just don't get it . How should I tell him this. besides i told this to my friends and they said its not right that i should brake up with him. Please help me what should i do?

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It's unfortunate that your dating started that way!

First you need to confirm with you boyfriend whether the story is true. Then you have to decide for yourself whether you should forgive him or not. It was a mistake he made and shows that not all relationships start out like in fairy tales.

Do you care enough about him and does he care enough about you so that you should stay together?

Have a long talk with him and share your feelings.

Then decide.

Good luck,

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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