How can I talk to a girl so she's interested in me?

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There aren't any set conversations that all people love. Some girls love talking about sports. Some hate sports. Some girls love talking about horses. Some hate horses. Don't think about these girls as "girls that are all alike". The trick to being interesting is talking to a *real individual person*.

Find out what this real person enjoys. Does she like soccer? Does she like ballet? Learn a bit about the subject. Now, go ask her a question about her favorite subject. Watch how she actually is interested in talking about it! People like talking about things they are fond of. They like sharing information, helping others, and learning new things.

Learn some new news in that area. Learn some obscure tidbit. If you're helping HER in her area of interest, that makes her even more interested in talking to you about it.

-- from Jenn
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