She has a boyfriend, she's flirting with me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
id realy like this girl but she has a boyfriend! but there are some feelings i notice to her lately! she always wanted to sit beside me even thugh her chair was about a 6 block away! and she even listen to my stories! shes angry! if im talking to one of my classmate i think! and she always make fun w/ me when im giving her an advice! about his bf! and sometimes i see her looking at me! when shes little too far from me! and when we dont have this talking! she makes quizes for me! projects! and making my writings!
one of my classmate said that this girl may have a crush on me! she just notice it! but not truly confirm! and sometimes when i look trough her eyes sometimes she laugh so hard and always saying 2 me that im crazy! and im going 2 make her crazy! and now we have this fight ! and where not even saying a hi to each other! but im confused! why is it shes looking at me when im not looking and i caught her looking at me! and we have this test when i decided to sitdown on the floor than the chair!!!
after about an 20 minutes some one shout and said that where is xxxx??? (me) so i stood up and look at the front sit! and ask why? i thought it was my teacher but it was not! it is zzzz's bestfriend! asking where am i! zzzz ask her where am i! so i think every minute shes looking at me! think so! and last friday! my classmate said that zzzz cry out to her! and the reason is me! b'coz she said that zzzz miss me a lot! she even feel so guilty and have the feeling of pity that she never feel in her life she said b'coz zzzz when she cries! she turn into red!she said she miss me a lot! that she always have this dream about me! and when i gave me anne a lettre asking "may galit ba sa kanto?" means is there some body out there angry w/ me? and she said that zzzz was so curious of am i talking about! and i didnt reply anymore!
she said zzzz was still asking who is it! and b'coz of that zzzz gave me a lettre just saying a hi! and a hello! but it is not labelled by her name! she said if i will know that it came from her i will look at her! but i didnt have this chance to read it b'coz one of my classmate have accidentaly thrown it outside! and the class has been finished w/out me reading it! and besides i didnt know it came from her so! i didnt waste my time! just finding that lettre! so can you tell me what are those things mean???????????!!!!!!!
It can certainly be that she has a crush on you, but since you never had approached her before she went out with this other guy when she was asked. So now she's dating this other guy but still interested in you. It certainly sounds like she's flirting with you a lot.
I'd keep spending time with her, talk with her, get to know her. If she really does like you, she may tell the other guy that she was sorry, but she had been waiting for you this whole time and that she would rather date you. It might be hard on the other guy, but these sorts of situations happen sometimes. It's better to get it resolved sooner rather than letting it all drag out.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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