Is this relationship worth saving?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I broke up with my boyfriend, because he was never around when he said he would be and I told him I was tired of being stood up and lead on. The night before, he claimed he was going to come over, but then called me to tell me he was going out of town with his guy friend that he is ALWAYS with. When I said I was tired of being lead on and stood up, he said "whatever you think." As if what I think is wrong. I missed him so bad, but when I sent him a text message after that, he wrote back "what is your problem?" I told him Id leave him alone, and he said he still wants to be friends. The trouble is, I havent seen or heard from him since we broke up. When we were together, I knew he genuinely cared for me, but now its as if he could care less. I dont understand this! How can I get him back if I dont even get to see him or talk to him? And is this relationship even worth salvaging?
It sounds like the relationship is all washed up.
He is putting nothing into any kind of relationship with you and you can't even talk to him the way things are now.
My advice is to move on. We have tips on how to deal with breakups at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54875
Hope this helps you in your sad situation!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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