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I like this girl (these always start with this, sorry for generic-isity. We talked every day for 1-2 hours for like 3-4 days. She told me several times about guys she almost went out with. She also complimented me a lot. My first question is: Does she like me?
Second, i got interupted when i was going to ask her out, is it ok to ask on the phone?
Lastly, my friend said that, by reading her emails to me, that she seemed like she had been hurt before and didn't know whether to trust me or not and that she was looking for someone who will support her dreams and plans and appreciate her no matter what, i could be that. Should i ask her out? And when? Advice
Definitely ask her out. Worse thing that could happen is she says no. Choose something simple (like a movie) and if she says no, make sure you remain friends. Ask her more about why she said no and if she might say yes in the future. Be ready to talk in case she says no.

You want to stay her friend for a while at least while there is the possibility that she will go out with you.

Best of luck to you!

-- from George
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