Tell him he is history

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I was with my boyfriend for about 5 years but the past 2 have been constantly off and on. I sometimes move on to another guy whenever he dumps me...trying to start a new life. He hates it..but yet hes the one that always breaks up with me. He says I was his first. and I know he was my first...So the love was strong there for a while. We usually break up because we fight a lot...or he'll start acting strange and acting like he doesnt care where this relationship goes. He just recently moved to a different school than mine...because his grades were horrible....well some of my friends go there with him and told me they seen him with this really nasty girl... that will do anything with anybody...That's why I was really hurt when I heard about it...I asked him he said he doesnt even know the girl but the next day somebody else told me they seen them together at lunch...After all this we were back together... He really had me thinking he loved me and he wasnt going to leave me......because I was his baby girl,.,,That night he left a message on my cell phone saying he was clocking out from work and said he loved me...the next day I called his house...and his dad said he left with a few people in a car...I sat on my porch and sure enough he was with a girl and a guy riding right past me.... I haven't heard from him since...He has the tendancy to come back about every two weeks or so. But Im gonna show him this time it's done..and im tired of crying all these tears for no reason what should i do if he comes back? What should I tell him> Thankx... Advice
You have been walked on enough!

Tell him that he is no longer part of your life and that he should look for someone new. He can't misunderstand that.

Yet, something tells me that if he comes begging back, you will want to be with him again. Be strong and resist or he will keep doing this to you and it will get worse.

Hope things turn out ok for you.

-- from George
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