Don't be shy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
there's this one guy i really really like so much, more than i've ever liked any one b4.The thing is,i don't really know him.During school breaks i talk to his brther and talk to him about the guy i like.Now i do know some stuff bout him but i still don't know how he really is.We both like each other and he knows that i like him a lot.The thing is he's quite shy when it comes to girls, well i get pretty shy myself at times but now that i know that he's a little shy, i won't be as shy around him any more.I think that i actully got an actul CRUSH on him! I've never had a real crush on any one B4 but i think i do on him.But is it possible even though i hardly know him, to have a crush on him? What should i talk to him about if i see him again?And how do i let him know that i really like him? I usully say that i wnna get to know guy B4 he asks me out. What if he asks me out next term (today was the last day of the 1t term).most peolpe have been telling me that i can get to know more if we end up going out(as boyfriend and girlfriend)Another thing is that his friend's and brother are trying get us to go out.What advive do you have for me? I'm i grade 8 he's in grade 9. i'm 14 yrs old
Everything is going your way!
You have a guy who seems to like you but is shy. All you need to do is to form a good friendship with him and soon you will be going out.
Having a crush is something that happens with little explanation. Just accept it as it is.
Here is a site which will help you figure out how to talk to him: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/whattalk.asp
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com