Move on from both of them

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My issue is complicated. My current boyfriend is sweet, sensitive, motivated and would be a great dad one day. Im almost 22 so this is something I consider when dating.
My problem is I have a guy friend who I am more physically attracted to and his personality is more complimentary with mine...we are both witty, spontaneous and have the same sense of humor..also an important thing to me. However, he already has a kid with one of my friends. He doesnt like her at all and has been flirting with me lately. Also, he is kind of a bad seed. He isn't really goal oriented and he's extremely stubborn.

So I guess my question is do I stay with my current boyfriend of 1 and a half years who is a great person but doesnt match my personality sometimes or go with the loose cannon who I have much more in common with but has a kid and no goals...or do I just move on from both???
Please help!!! Advice
You answered your own question when you suggested moving on from both of them. Neither is right for you.

There is little passion and spontaneity with your boyfriend.

There is little trust and respect for the other guy.

You deserve better than half a guy, go for the whole thing!

Good luck!

-- from George
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