Secret admirer notes-- are they working?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Im having this problem and i looked up similar questions on this site but none were specific to my problem. I like this guy and he is only a grade above me we have no classes together but we are both in the same club and i see him in the hallways alot. Ive written him a few secret admirer notes and stuck them in his locker but there is no way of knowing if he got them.I try to make eye contact with him when i can. One time awhile back i was starring at him and he caught me and was like "what are you looking at" I said nothing (literally i just turned around)..He has caught me other times but hasnt said anything and sometimes he looks at me. Ive never spoke to him because he is always around people (his friends) and i want to try to atleast say hi but he is never alone.I would like to know if there was a way to find out if he got my notes without puting me in the open..I dont want to be laughed at for it..Anyway basically i really like him and i dont know what to do about it. Plaese help if possible
Of course he has seen those notes, so he knows that someone likes him.
Your best bet is to say hi to him in the club. Say hi, use his name, and give him a big smile when you do. After a few times of this, ask him how he is doing and when he says "fine" say "great." Slowly build up your confidence and the amount of conversation you have.
After starting this in the club, say hi to him in the halls. Just Hi and his name. This will capture his attention.
Eventually you can become good friends with him and maybe you two will go out together.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com