Lost her boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm so confused. ive Dated this guy for 6 months and its my first relationship ive ever been serious about,i was having mixed feelings about us. and it wasnt his fault.. things going on around me were shattering like glass. i broke up with him twice and then we got back together agian, mean time one of my best friends tried to commit suicide because he is in love with me and didnt know what to do, so i panniced and did the first thing that came to mind, i broke up with B/F...after i made peace with friend and what not, He wont Take me Back, he says i have hurt him too much... ive written him letters and called him every day and he wont budge, im so lost because i cant live with out him.. he dosent understand he has hurt me before in so many ways. and he cant seem to look past what i have done... ive tried everything and i cant find any ansures.... Please Help!
---- Salt For My Wounds ----
My advice is to give it time. Remain good friends with your ex and be there for him. Share your feelings with him from time to time without pressuring him.
Eventually, he may start to feel good about you again and you can pick up the pieces.
I am sorry you are in this predicament.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com