Admitted to my Crush that I Like Him
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My two close friends and I planned a luncheon. My crush was invited. He did come but my friend (who knows him very well) said that he seems very quiet that day. Usually he's the talkative one. Later in the evening, i met up with him again at a mall. He was with a few friends. He talked to me a bit then talked to his friends then talked to me then talked to his friends. My other friend said that he balanced his friendship.
Then the next day, my friend told me she noticed that my crush was very quiet when he was out coz he saw or talked to my other friend. So what does that mean? i hope you understand my story...
Anyway... as you said, V-day is coming.. few day before that special day comes, i plan to confess and tell him i have a crush on him... then on v-day.. i give him a special card (handmade)... [i also have made other card to my friends but he's one is different from the others =p]Do you think that's a good idea? Thnx
It sounds like you're already friends with your crush if you're spending time with him and talking with him and such. So that's good, he already likes you in general and knows you like him in general. So in a way you're just "upping the ante" and telling him that you like him more than as a friend. Which hopefully he'll find quite a nice thought! People like to be liked :)
I don't think I would just say "I have a crush on you!" There really isn't much a person can say in response to that. I would go the Valentine's Day card route. Give him the extra special card and put something in there to let him know that he is extra-special to you. That will give him time to think about it and how he feels and so on. And then when you see him after that, see if he'll go to a movie or something with you, just you two. Not really as a date yet, but as a special thing for you two together. See how it goes from there!
-- from Jenn
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