Is he just jealous or a jerk?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
SO i like a guy, and some of my guy friends talk all the time about us going out or making out (while we are both standing there), And him and i are really close and talk about this stuff when they arn't around!! But One of the other guyz always says that he dosen't like me at all and he dosen't go out(when noone else is around),And supposedly he has liked me in the past >>I just thought he was jealous because everyone else including this guy told me he does like me >> So what do you think do you think he is just jealous ? or is he just a jerk?? What do i do?
You could try to talk with him like an adult and ask him what is going on... unfortunately it doesn't sound like he is has matured yet.
You can try sweetness and try to get on his good side, or you could become angry with him and tell him off. My guess is that the second one will work better. This is because the sweet approach could backfire on you if he started talking with everybody about it.
So you must be firm with him and tell him to cut it out. You could also ask your friends to help you put him down when he acts out.
-- from George
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