Ex is seeing another girl, I am seeing another guy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, i sent you a previous email about my boyfriend who loves me as a friend..but now he tells me he does love me and will always care about me...he started talking to another girl which he says he doesnt like her but they are hanging out this weekend..so i made plans with a guy that i am friends with to hang out this weekend...and when i told my ex he wouldnt stop talking about this new girl and told me he wasnt jealous and he didnt care about my new plans..do you think he means it?...or is he just trying to have some freedom...and a little while it should pass?...i acted like it didnt bother me about this girl which it does ...should i continue to not call him and act like i dont care...and act like im not sitting around waiting for his calls?
Stick with the plan I mentioned last time. Call him from time to time to see how he is doing and let him know you are there for him if he needs to talk. He sounds confused right now, so give him time to sort things out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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