He needs a big kick

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi, need help me and my boyfriend were together for 2years.he broke up with me at xmas mainly because we got in a rut i had i lot of girly problems my periods were getting me down and i think he wanted to be single all his mates are and they have played a big part in this.anyway we got back together and broke up again and weve been on and off. but we got back together again last week when we are together its great we really fit together. but he did it again i think hes so confused bout what he wants he says all this stuff like he dont want no one else etc but he says he cant be my boyfriend he thinks i want things i dont.we are both to young for big commitement but you can have it all he thinks you cant be a lad and have a girlfriend hes got it all wrong i dont know what to do he says hes scared but really loves me i think we too things too fast when we got back together thats why he went all weird again i dont know what to do?he needs a big kick up the arse and sort himself out!!

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It sounds like he is not mature enough to make a commitment or possibly he is really just tired of dating. There is not a lot you can do about it... or should I say you have already done what you can without luck.

Unfortunately, it is probably time for you to cut him loose and move on. Sorry you are in this situation.

Good luck!

-- from George
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