Have a heart to heart talk with him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am 19..I am very confused...well here I go. I am going out with this guy that lives like about an hour away from me. We have been goin out for about a little over 3 months now but have been talkin to each other for like almost 7 months. Well, he broke up with his girl friend then he and I got together. When we first got together we would talk on the phone for hours and hours about anything and everything. Now, we just talk like 15 minutes a night if that. And he is all about SEX SEX SEX. Well, anyway I have been talking to someone from another country for awhile now. He is so sweet. I just dont know what to do. The way he talks to me, the letters he sends me, cards, and things. I am talkin to both. The guy from the other country is so much sweeter and more sincere than my boyfriend now. I just am confused...Someone please tell me what todo...I really love my boyfriend.... But I need to know what to do..
Your boyfriend has only one thing on his mind. You need to let him know that you are not comfortable with only talking about sex. And find out why you are only talking for about 15 minutes now. This communication will help you form a stronger relationship with him.
Regarding the overseas guy: tell your boyfriend about him and ask him if he has any problem with it. He probably will. So then it will be up to you to make a decision about which one to keep.
If you really love your boyfriend, this is the way to go.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com