He never called after they had sex

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
YOU HAVE TO READ THIS TO UNDERSTAND I AM SOO SOOO SO SRY THIS IS LONG!Alright, my boyfriend B* and I have been having this not talking problem...see I used to live an hour away but now I live like 15mins away from him....we first started going out in February of 2004...it was an online relationship then in May we started calling each other...then in September I called him and it was durring the hurricanes so the phone cut out little did I know I wasnt gunna talk to him for a long while. Then December 26,2004 I called him like i did every other day or so and he picked up and we got close again. Then on December 28th we met up for the first time...this was after web cam and sh**but I was still amazed...then on the 3rd Of January he came whilst my mom was gone and we...ya know had sex...and then we talked two days after....but I havent heard fro him since(Its March 1st)...the whole time we were talking we were I love you and that nice stuff...I love him soooo much and we talked about having a family and marrying and things but now this is the second time this has happened
IS THIS WORTHLESS? AM I A HOPELESS ROMANTIC? I see him with his family some times...and some times hes skating and last time he clamed he was working...which I bet is true but still...Should I give up or give him a call?

RomanceClass.com Advice
You might want to give him some more chances. At least try to find out why he is not talking with you anymore. Sadly, the chances are that he was just using you. But I wouldn't rush to that judgement without giving him some more chances. Or, maybe he found another girlfriend and is afraid to tell you.

Hope this works out well for you!
George

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