He Walked Out and Didn't Call or Anything
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend just left 2 weeks ago one morning and never came back. No phone call or anything. The night before he just told me that he feels like he can't trust me but doesn't know why? I miss him so much but the only way I can contact him is by calling him at work or mailing him something. I don't know if I should even make that effort to try to get in touch with him.
I thought that he was the one. Then all of a sudden out of no where he started acting not like he's happy with me without any reason. I don't know what to do. All I do is sit and think about him. Did he find another or did I scare him away somehow.
Should send him something for Valentine's Day to let him know that I still want him or has he already forgotten about me? Please help me out of feeling like this. I never thought that I could love someone this much and have them do this to me.
It definitely sounds like he needs to do some growing up. Being in a relationship is about being with a person you have respect for and trust. You don't just abandon someone that trusts you. If nothing else, he owed it to you to tell you what he was feeling, why he was leaving and give you some discussion about it. To just storm out and not even say why is very childish and petulant.
I could call him up or find a way to talk to him in person. If nothing else, at least as a FRIEND you deserve to know he is OK, he hasn't died in a car crash on his way to work or something, and why he has decided to make this serious change in the relationship you two share.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com