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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been married for 5 years to my husband we meet over 13 years ago when i was 15 and i cheated on him when we was dating and he cheated no me. well when we got married i thought that was behind us. I was alwasys very flirty and he doesnt mind. I took a new job about 8 months ago. I had to go out of town and the min i saw this guy i knew i wanted to sleep with him i have had these feelings before but something always got in the way but this time nothing did. Itwas the right place and the right time. I would never see him again. So i cheated on him and went back home. I felt bad about it but it was over. No one knows. My problem now is this guy that works for me has been hinting. He is married also so im not scared of getting caught, but I dont want to cheat on my husband i love him so much and i cant really see myself without him. But when i get around this guy i forget everything. i have already fooled around with him to the point of cheating but he wants to take it further. i find myself thinking of him and wanting to call him and set a time. Please Help Me!
You need to make an appointment with a counselor and talk this out. Ideally you would go with your husband to a marriage counselor. You know it's not a matter of if you are going to get caught but just a question of when. So if you want to avoid a bunch of lies, you should stop your cheating.
-- from George
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