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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Im 18 and my boyfriend is 24 we have a 8 month old daughter together. I have a major jealousy issue that ive never addressed to him. So, i decided to really get to the root of the problem to see what was actually making me jealous . Its because hes lived with many of his exe's and we never lived together, actually i still live with my parents. His exes had money,cars, and even the people hes dated had their own house. I have none of that. Also, in his past relationships the women were much older than me in their 20's so its gotten so bad even when i see a mature, woman when me and my boyfriend are together i get jealous. With them being in there 20's they had the opportunity to do more things like go to bars and casinos, i also get jealous because we are not able to do that because of my age. We were having a conversation and he bragged about having very attractive females in the past that also made me jealous.. What should i do i been going through this everday of my life now. Its drving me crazy..HELP!!
The solution to all this is to talk to him honestly about your feelings. You can't know what's going on in his mind unless you ask him. As long as he loves you and isn't cheating, you should not be worrying about his past. You will get older soon enough. If you want to live together with him, make that a priority for your relationship. Hope it works out.
-- from George
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