Tell him he has to talk
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have known this guy,K for about 2 months now.Things are not so smooth right from the start but we managed to sort things out everytime.I tried to approach an issue which i find that we both need to tackle.Me,being repetitive and him,about not doing anything to improve the situation.Instead,he puts the blame on me,saying that i do not accept him for what he is.When all i did was to make our relationship better by wanting to talk it over.He became very uptight and even did not call me for several days.I have a feeling of resentment inside me and now i'm not even sure of this relationship.Are we in or are we out?Seems like it's going nowhere and i'm on the verge of going crazy!Please help..thanks so much
In some nice way you need to tell him that unless he is willing to talk openly and honestly with you about your concerns that you will have to consider splitting up with him. No relationship is going to be lasting and good without open honest communication.
-- from George
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