Blinded by love
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, I am 15 years old and my muffin cake* is 18, i love him so much and 3 years different is okay right? We have the most romantic, fun filled relationship ever. I love him alot, i really do, he tells me he loves me liek a million times a day and i do too! I think he's my prince that i could spend the rest of my life with. I am so sure. I have known him for at least 3 years and our relationship is filled with honesty, love, faith, passion and way way more that i just cant describe. We have decided to stay together untill we are both old enough to marry and well have a beautiful family wedding and well have kids. Were both virgins and weve both decided to stay like that until were both married TOGETHER. The FIRST only problem is, all this time i've known him, my parents dont know about our deep serious relationship. I want to know how to tell them in a way that it'll convince them that i know my future is with him and that i will do my best at my coureer. Then comes the REALLY tough part of this, i met him on the internet in chatroom, ive seen him on webcam, phone and pictures and i trust him more than anybody. I am so sure he wont break my heart.And he's coming to meet me in a year or two. hes already saving up! I just want to belive this will work cos our relationship means so much to me. please just give me some advice and i might be blinded by love but i can still see what i could lose and im gonna have to sacrafice somethings in life...
There is no problem with the age difference, but there is a problem with making such an emotion committment with someone you've never met. I doubt that your parents will understand or support you on this. My advice is to continue talking to the guy but don't put all your eggs in that one basket.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com