Proving your Love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
my boyfriend dosent belive me when i tell him that i love him and he wants me to prove it to him and i dont know how. can you tell me ways to prove to him that i really truly love him with all of my heart?
Woah! Take a BIG step back here. Your boyfriend is acting very, very immaturely. Love is NOT about proof. There's no need to prove your love! The entire basis of love and a relationship is honesty, trust, communication and caring. You are SAYING you love him. He doesn't trust you? He doesn't think you are honest? Then the problem is with HIM and not with YOU.
Most guys dream of the day that a girl says she loves him! It sounds like he is either insecure or trying to manipulate you or both. In either case that's a recipe for disaster.
Stand your ground. You deserve to be trusted, you deserve to be believed in. If he's childish enough that he demands proof for something as important as love, it's time for him to do some growing up. The proof is that you SAID IT to him. He better get a grip and understand that, it's one of the most important concepts there IS in a relationship.
And definitely do NOT even start thinking about ways to prove it. That would lower yourself to his level. I have to guess that he means in some sort of physical way, and that is just WRONG.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com