Tell him how you feel
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating and in love with my boyfriend for two years, only recently (past 4 months) did he finally tell his parents that we were dating and begin to call me his girlfriend. I am 22 and he is 25 years old. Lately we have been getting into more and more fights lately involving him not putting any priority on our relationship. He is often out with his friends until 4am and doesn't call to say that he will be late. Our latest fight involved him saying that he is going to spend every weekend this summer fishing, I normally wouldn't have a problem with this but I will be moving after I graduate from college and the weekends are the only time that I could see him. His reason for wanting to fish all of the time is becuase we are not married or anything. He says that he does plan on marrying me, but he doesn't act like it. I want to know what I should tell him, shape up or ship out, or should I just cut my losses and if he regrets his decision well that is tough.
Tell him how you feel. Have a long, honest conversation with him and see if you can get your priorities meshed. My guess is that you will drift apart anyway when you move away. So enjoy what you have now or let him go.
-- from George
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