Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Theres this guy that i really like(maybe love) and i've been having feelings that he likes me too. He gives me all the signs to liking me. It's as if he wants me to know. Like when this other guy asked me if i needed help writing something, the guy i like will be like, "no!", him and his friends are always starring at me and he tries whenever he can to try to talk to me. When there was this school dance, and a slow song came on he came looking for me but didn't bother to make a move cause it seems like he was really nervous. I can tell he gets really jelous when he sees me talking to other guys and he comes over and starts talking to them when he's not even friends with them. We always have these moments where we lock eyes with one another for like 10 secconds. I mean its soo obvious that he likes me! i read some of the advice thats on this site to try get help on what i should do, and i did. I asked the guy if he likes me and he said he doesn't like me that way..but i dont understand why he couldn't because he was giving me all of the signs..and he still does after i asked him that. i even asked two of his friends and they said i dont know but i know they do. I REALLY, REALLY like this guy and i want to go out with him but i dont know what to do...i mean does he really like me or was he telling the truth that he doesn't?? What should i do? Any advice would be very well appreciated..Sincerely, the confused crush..
He may have been nervous when you asked him. Next time try saying this "I am beginning to develop feelings for you, how do you feel?" That way you are taking the first step in starting the relationship and it will be easier for him to accept that.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com