Treat her nice
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi im, im relle good friends with this girl. She had a bf but she just dumped him. I have liked her for about 2 1/2 months. Shes relle nice and i love her personality and shes pretty too. She just broke up with this guy and hes taking it relle hard hes like smoking and drinking and stuff and she feels bad and like yeah. Anyway im not sure if she likes me cuz like the day after valentines day i had mentioned that it sucked because i was like alone and then she asked me to be her belated valentine and her own boyfriend hadnts asked her to be her valentine and then she asked me if i wanted to do sumthing this weekend, and then today she told me i should give her a big hug tommorow wen i see her cuz me n my friends and her n her friends always meet on friday nights at the ice rink and she said its been a hard week. so like i dunno if she likes me or wut. and i like her and shes been under a lot of stress lately cuz of her dumping her boyfriend and i wanna know how i can like make her have a good time and like relieve her stress and stuff. any suggestions?
She may really like you, or she may be on the "rebound." This happens when someone breaks up and then immediately finds someone new to fill the gap. You should assume it is the real thing and she definitely likes you. Follow her lead. The best help you can be is to be there for her, have honest conversations, and help her get over her loss. Be her best friend in addition to the hugging, etc.
-- from George
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