Don't talk to strangers
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend used to take so much control over me the first 4 or 5 months we were dating. I mean he would tell me I couldn't talk to certain people and stuff like that and he was even good friends with these people. I respected him and didn't talk to them b/c I didn't want any strain on the relationship. Well now there is this girl that he talks to in college(which he only goes to night school) who I have never met and sometimes it seems like he hides her from me. I have never even met her but I have seen her once. I am extremely jelous b/c she is gorgeous. I asked him before I met her not to talk to her just because well I don't know anything about her or even her name for that matter. He doesn't want to listen and he told me he is not attracted to her. Shouldn't he respect what I think since I respected what he thought?
It's only fair for him to follow the same rules he gave to you. My problem is that you two shouldn't be controlling each other so much. It will wreck your relationship in the long run. Trust is a very important part of a good relationship. Give it a try.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com