Reading too much into a relationship
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok i met this guy about a month and a half ago.....we slept together last night and he didnt call the next day until he overheard from a friend i was drunk at a party (at 1:00am)....he just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship and was engaged he is 3 years younger than me...and on my birthday he had an excuse and didnt come to dinner as we had planned....i was bummed but pretended as i didnt care...he called several times after that and asked how my day was....we talk alot on the phone, hang out with his friends and each other...i really dont wanna get hurt for the 5458934 time how do u think i should deal with this situation......just let go while my heart is still in tact or weigh it out.....and another problem i have is reading too much into relationships too soon HOW DO I STOP THAT?
The key to some of this is communications. You need to have long honest talks with your partner sounding out how he feels about you and you letting him know how you feel. It won't all be pretty, but for a relationship to deepen and survive, communication is essential. So, if you are communicating clearly you won't get too deep into a relationship before it is appropriate.
-- from George
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