When did I lose my virginity
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
im 18 yrs old and when i slept with my boyfriend for the 1st time 7months ago now as far as i new i was a virgin.the only thing is there was absolutly no bleeding and it didn't really hurt.the thing is a few years ago i hed this horrible memory but i dont no if its real or if it was just a dream....i could picture a man i know to this day getting me to lye in bed naked with him and to suck his penis i would have only been about 6/7. i was just wonder if theres any way i can find out what age i actually was when i actually lost my virginity without confronting my mum..i dont want to ask her in case its just a stupid dream or something its been driving me crazy for the past few months and it has caused problems in my realationship with my boyfriend.please help i just wanna know the truth!
It is possible that you experience sexual abuse as a young child and you have blocked it out. Probably a psychologist could help you figure that out.
Regarding when you lost your virginity, it is impossible to tell. Many girls break their hymen playing sports, riding bikes or horses, or just using tampons. It is likely that this is what happened with you.
-- from George
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