Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I think I'm having an 'internet affair' (as they call it) with a married man!! Soo is this right or wrong?? I try telling myself that an affair is an affair whether it's physical or mental, right?? I've done some reading on internet affairs and I seem to have all the symptoms of it. Such as, you can't wait til you get that NEXT email from him and you tell each other sexual things that you would love to do with each other, and he's even confessed that he's felt something for me for quite a few years now but he can't do anything about it cause he's married. He's told me he would never stray from home but we stil carry on from day to day in our emails and basically talk all sexual with each other. The only thing different about this internet affair is he isn't someone that I've just met online, or who could be lying to me and says he's this person when he's really not. I know this man and have for quite some time. We live in the same town, I know his family, we've know each other for about 9 years now and we still see each other in person every soo often in town. So what do I do?? Are we both in the wrong here and do you think this internet affair could snowball out of control anytime soon? I appreciate your help, thanks sooo much!
This Internet affair can lead to no good. Despite how romantic it is, you should put an end to it and get on with a more normal life. Sorry.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com