He wants sex with no stringsVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am 20 years old and I lost my Virginity to my guy friend who is also 20, He said that she only wants friends with privledges, but I was alright with that, but then I get all sad when he decides to date other women, then he goes back to me, I asked him whats wrong with me and why he doesn't want a relationship with me, and he said that there is nothing wrong with me and that he thinks I am a little needy, He always tells me that he wants to be single and have sex with no strings attached, and I said I understand, and he told me for some reason that he feels That i am connected to him. He always dates these girls who are single mothers and not as attractive as me. I am sorry I didn't want to sound rude. We talk all the time, and I want to be with him, and he always chooses to date and have relations with these other girls, and I have no idea why, He runs to the rescue for these girls but when I need help he doesn't help me, and he asked me to see my breasts on web cam 4 minutes before he wanted to see his gf, but they broke up now and he talks to me, I want to know what to do, how do I get him, or do I deserve better, or am I some type of freak that can't get love?
He has made it very clear what he wants. He wants your body with no strings attached. If that is ok with you then you have no problem. If you want more, you will need to make him see it your way or dump him.
-- from George
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