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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am so confused right now, i don't know if you can help me, but i really need an advice. I am with my boyfirend for 4 months, i know this is not long, but we became really close really fast. But for the last month we have been arguing a lot, about everything. And he suggested that we take a break for a week. Which means no contact whatsoever, no seeing each other, no phone, no email. I agreed but i am so afraid of loosing him. I am afraid that this week will end our relationship, but if we go on arguing like that, then this will end our realationship. Please help me with advice, is that a good thing that we taking a break?
You don't need a break, you need to have a long honest talk with him. Don't get into arguments, but just say how you feel. If the talks don't go well, and you think it is worth the effort, seek out a counselor to help you two better understand each other.
-- from George
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