Wait or let her go
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't completely over my ex. I explained to my girlfriend from the beginning that I wasn't ready for a serious relationship but we agreed to push on and give it a try anyways. Well it got to the point where she said she was falling in love with me. I wasn't there at that point yet. So i had to let her go because I didn't want to hurt her even more.
I used the time away to ride myself of the feeling I had of my ex. When I did this it was very clear how perfect my girlfriend was for me.
So I called her up about two months after we broke up and told her I would love to give it another shot but she was very hesitant and needed to thing about it. A week later she told me she had a new bf and had started dating him a month after we broke up. She also said she was afraid to tell me right away. It has now been about 2 months since I told her I wanted her back. I try and call her from time to time but she seems afraid to talk or just avoids me.
Do I go to her and spill my heart or do I simply let her be. I know if you love someone some times you just have to let them go and this is how I know how strong I feel for her because even though it would kill me inside.. I would do it for her.
Thank you for your time.
You might tell her how you feel about her but then say that you have decided to let her go since that is what she wants. This way, you won't be pressuring her but at the same time putting the thought in her mind. Wait a while and see what happens. Meanwhile, look for someone new.
-- from George
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