Is he just using her?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
well, im dating this guy. we 'talked' for forever and a day then he finally asked me out. during the time we were talking our conversations would just be awesome, never running out of things tot alk about and such and he would make it known that he liked me and made an effort to show. now, hes just really short, barely shows affection and sometimes completely ignores me. its hurtful sometimes because...well ill say this at the risk of oversharing...but hell come over to my house, and we'll get into sexual things...not sex, but pretty much everything else. barely ever does he pleasure me, i am constantly doing everything to him. i really really feel like he doesnt like me anymore, and hes just using me now for that pleasure. i feel like im in love with this guy but i cant bring myself to tell him my problems. i HAVE talked to him before, but he doesnt handle that well and almost broke up with me. i love him, but i don't know what to do :( Advice
If you can't talk with him about your problems, then your relationship isn't very strong. You need to be able to talk out your feelings and respect each other's concerns. If he is unwilling or unable to do this, then you have a real problem on your hands. You could work on him slowly and hope for the best or you could cut the ties and move on. Sorry you are in this fix.

Good luck,

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