Give him a call

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
This guy who i think i really like is older then me by almost 4 years. My parents are against me even likeing him but i can't help it. No hes not the best looking guy and not the funniest. I don't even fell comfortable talking to him in person but there is something about him that i can't get over him. He called me once and we talked about everything. He told me about his plan after highschool this year and all about his friends at school and the people he didn't like. He said alot about people i know that he didn't like so i think he trust me but lately this other girl has been hanging all over him. this girl has a boyfriend and she talks about him to my guy but that doesn't stop her from hugging on him. I know i shouldn't be jealous because we aren't even together but i can't help being angery that he gives her attention and not me. i try to get him to notice me by talking to him in class. Like the other day i asked him what book he was reading but he didn't seem to notice me. after the phone call i thought he liked me. Does he or was he just playing me? Is there a way to get him to notice me? Advice
Well, first of all I should recommend that you follow your parents' advice. There is a large age difference and he will be out of high school soon.

Having said that, the next advice is to call him on the phone and ask him if you have a chance with him. There is so much going on in his life that you need to get right down to the real nitty-gritty with him and see if you have a hope or not.

He probably didn't here you when you asked him that question in class. Don't give up on that.

Good luck,

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